dear blog,
i know im not talking about anything new. i.e "hope".. .. but some experiences are new to you in life.. and you want to talk about it. .. dats the situation i felt today.. .. no no no don't think dat i never hope or i never gave anyone hope but today i came to know about something sad about one of my "friend of friend" ,, ,, so thought to share it.
so here i go for sharing this. ..
my friend of friend mrs. "z" had a baby girl few days ago, but that angel didn't seem to be happy with this world and she returned to the heavens after 24hrs. . .
now "z" and her husband were really sad for this incident.. and ofcourse who would not be?? .. after few days her husband went back to his work in other city, her in laws and family started doing with their own lives.. but "z" ? ? ? ?
her life just stucked..!! she left passing smiles, cracking jokes, going parties, hanging on fone.. in short everything which cud give her joy was now miles away from her..
but is she right in doing that.. ??
according to me its a big NO.. !! !! !!!
i think we shouldn't stop our lives . in fact we should do something good for others who are passing through the same stage as we.. doing so can't make things "undo" but can heal one's pain.. . .
we all directly or indirectly, are now making "z" take interest in life, in her studies back, and in her activities. i asked my friend not to repeat the nature's cruelity in front of her instead she should show her the pictures of other people who are having more miserable lives, facing nature's cruelties which are far more harsh than hers.. kids born and brought up widout parents., parents who lost their young and adult children in blasts, people who are starving , who don't have enough to clothe their children etc etc etc.. so we hope that our efforts would bring colors of life back to our dear "z"..
the point i wanted to raise here, is :: if you are having something bad happened to you,,, plzzzzzzz instead of being sorrowful and loosing hopes, revitalize yourself, do good to ALLAH (SWT)'s creatures,and look to the people who are not having the things that you have..
hope for the best but yeah prepared for the worst...
